Monday, February 16, 2009

I am tired of being told I don't exist.

I am beginning to think that something big has happened and I missed it. Apparently, I have ceased to exist. Who knew?

According to the Washington Post, no one has books in their living rooms anymore. We do. In the living room, the bedrooms, the basement, the dining room...

We don't have a tv in the living room. In fact, there's only one in the house, and no cable. The door-to-door cable guy couldn't believe that when we do use the tv, we use a regular old antenna. That just doesn't happen. Apparently.

According to WAMU's Dianne Rehm Show, no one cooks anymore. I do. Every single day. I bake, too. And make candy. I even make my husband's lunch, nearly every day. Also, I sew and knit clothing for my family.

People in this house know how to play actual musical instruments, and do so. Frequently.

According to many, many outlets, no one reads anymore. I read more now than I ever did. So does the rest of my family. And we go to the library.

According to many of those same outlets, families don't eat together any more. We eat dinner together -- which is usually on the table when my husband (the only one I've ever had) gets home -- every night.

Also, apparently, everyone lives in much bigger houses today. We live in a small Cape Cod built in 1949. It has not been expanded one iota (not even a deck). We have a tiny kitchen without a dishwasher. In fact, the only real improvements since 1949 have been replacing major appliances as they've died.

We have one car. It's american.

And no one has a community anymore, or so I hear. We live in Cheverly, an amazing, active community. We know the teenagers. We know their parents. We're fairly certain we know many of the kids whom our own kids will date in a decade or so. Grandparents live here, close to their children and grandchildren. In some cases, right next door. And Facebook keeps us connected to family and friends that, in other times, we would have lost contact with long ago. In fact, I feel more in tune with people in my life than I ever have.

I am a stay-at-home mom who volunteers in the community and at my children's schools.

If I went by the media, I really would have to question my own existence. The thing is, I know that there are other families out there, just like mine. In fact, I have a feeling there are a lot of us, all beginning to doubt if anyone knows we're here anymore.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

holding pattern

You know, I really should be able to think of something to do with 20 minutes.
But I can't.

And, since I've been sort of neglecting the blog (facebook + twitter + hulu = bad), I'm going to fall back on an old standard...

WHAT'S ON MY iPOD (20 songs in order, no skips)
1. Wilco: Should've Been in Love
2. Blur: Out of Time
3. Nirvana: Breed
4. The Strokes: Hard to Explain
5. U2: Do You Feel Loved?
6. Van Morrison: Brand New Day
7. Radiohead: Morning Bell
8. Rick Springfield: Jessie's Girl
9. TV on the Radio: Bomb Yourself
10. The Apollinaires: Envy the Love
11. Sonic Youth: Mary-Christ
12. The Beatles: I Will
13. The White Stripes: Passive Manipulation
14. Weezer: Possibilities
15. Siouxsee & the Banshees: Dazzle
16. David Bowie: Looking for Water
17. The Minus 5: The Town That Lost Its Groove
18. De La Soul: Magic Number
19. Outkast: Dracula's Wedding
20. Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers: Here Comes My Girl
I have no idea what my iPod is trying to tell me. Except that maybe I should delete #8. Oh. And I'm old.
Okay. Your turn. What's on your iPod?

Monday, February 2, 2009

thing-a-day 2009 Day 1

Thing-a-day has started, and I am on the ball!

February 1 (day 1):

* Red Velvet cupcakes for Maggie's Tea Party (and the SuperBowl ... the tea party was really just a cover to make childish cupcakes for grownups)

* Chocolate-cherry bread pudding for brunch with my mother-in-law, who also went to Tot soccer and witnessed Maggie actually kick the ball into the goal twice, which is more than Paul ever, ever managed

* Spicy white bean stew for the SuperBowl, which doubled as a knit-in (thanks, Kelly & Monica -- I love traditions!)

* Tea party cut-out paper doll chains, which Maggie and her friend decorated. They were all princesses. Big surprise, that. The girls also played lots of pretend games, all of which seemed to center around a mother and child going on an airplane and being left alone. I have no idea what that was about.

* Finally, progress on Charles' new hat. This is a replacement for the first one I made for him -- a long overdue Christmas present that I had planned to complete during homework in December. Unfortunately, it was comically large. I hope it fits my dad!

So that's Day 1. On to Day 2...I think I can finish the hat today!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Thing-a-day Is Coming!

Are you a artsy fartsy sort of person? Creative? Do you like a challenge? February is thing-a-day 2009 month.Each day during the month of February, I pledge to make one new thing, and this year I'm planning to try silk screening, metal work and quilting (in addition to knitting, painting, decoupage, cooking, baking, candy-making, sewing, embroidery and whatever else I can think of). Everyone chronicles what we produce on thing-a-day, and I'll be posting updates here as well. Last year was great -- and a real challenge. See some of the cool things that participants created last year on the flickr site.
So...anybody else in?

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Woo Boy!

Maggie begins her foray into organized sports this morning with Tot Soccer. If she is anything like the rest of us, organized sports will be a short-lived outlet for her. We are not an athletically gifted family. In fact, challenged is a charitable term.

In other news, the boy is wandering around the house with red goo attached to his head with masking tape. He is planning to clone himself, and then take over...something? His plans aren't real clear, but he has some. I should probably be more alarmed.
Also, Paul discovered belly dancers this weekend. Now that is a world of wonders.

Friday, January 9, 2009

The grippe grips our house.

To celebrate Friday, I was going to upload a very sweet little video of laMag singing a favorite Halloween tune (or "Happy Happy, Joy Joy" over and over), but I seem to be a tech moron (Shhh! Our secret!) Instead, please take a gander at these beautiful images of cold and flu viruses (top and bottom, respectively)...

I'm not sure exactly which ones are having a party inside me (remember that Cosby Show episode where Dr. Huxtable explains to youngest daughter Rudy all about the germs having a party?) but something is definitely amiss. All I want to do is lay down here on the carpet under my desk and hope that some kind soul brings a blanket. And maybe some hot tea. Really just a blanket. I'm so cold.

(Personally, I'm blaming Maggie, who had croup at the start of the week. I really shouldn't have let her breathe into my mouth, but it seemed like a sort of good idea at the time. Looking back, I was an idiot. Again.)

Monday, January 5, 2009

Holding off on starting the New Year

I admit it. I'm one of those people who's ready to take the Christmas decorations down and the tree out to the curb on January 1. However, I live with people (males) who are awfully sentimental about such, so the tree and decorations stay up until the tree dies or something breaks, whichever comes first. Which means we're in a holding pattern. A standoff, if you will.

Add to that the heaving sighs and tears this morning as two people (males) made their way back from two weeks' vacation. And Maggie has croup, so the one person who really wanted to get back to life outside of this house didn't even get to go.

So if the tree is up and at least one person is at home sick, I'm calling personal extended holidays. Which means I'm not going to get on to those big (and much-needed) organizing projects. Or any self-improvement, really. The laundry is going to wait one more day, too. And the grocery shopping. I'm just going to turn on the Christmas lights, make a pot of tea, listen to all the cool music I downloaded from iTunes this weekend, and knit for an hour. Or two. Happy Holding Pattern to you and yours!

Incidentally, Paul is planning to wear his "jamas" inside-out for the foreseeable future. So if the snow (or ice) starts to fall, you know who to thank.
(I'm sure he'll have something to say about all of this later today on his blog.)